10. The Troubles of Being a Man: Sexual Maturity Characteristics and Physiological Weaknesses

The Troubles of Being a Man

Characteristics of sexual maturity

Sexual maturity is not necessarily proportional to age. People of the same age may be sexually mature and knowledgeable about the opposite sex, making them more adept at dating. Others, however, may remain sexually immature and confused, leading to repeated failures in their search for a partner.

Some people have designed a set of questions for men to assess their sexual maturity by answering them. Below, we present these questions to our readers:

1. What do you think is the most ideal quality in a woman?

2. If you have sexual problems, who would you talk to first? ① A close friend ② A doctor ③ Your partner

3. What do you think is the most memorable thing you can do for a woman? ① Bravery ② Sexual skills ③ Attentiveness

4. What can make a woman fall for you most? ① Touch her after turning off the lights. ② Kiss her and gently call her name. ③ Abandon playful banter and pay attention to her emotions.

5. What do you think are the characteristics of contemporary women? ① Women still prefer men to be a little rough in sexual matters. ② Today's women demand equality in all aspects. ③ Women still like to be treated like ladies by men.

6. If your partner spends a long time with other men, how would you react? ① Forbid her from having contact with them again. ② Follow her around as much as possible. ③ Feel happy and pampered because she is generally liked by others, but loves you the most.

7. Do you often compliment your partner's appearance? ① Rarely do you look directly at her. ② When you particularly like or dislike a certain aspect of her. ③ You often find her strengths and compliment them.

8. What do you do when you are sexually aroused but she is indifferent? ① Get angry and criticize her coldness ② Go away and look at pornographic books ③ Patiently and gently caress her.

9. What is your attitude towards older women? ① I don't have any sexual relations with them. ② They are second only to younger women in terms of sexuality. ③ They have many admirable qualities due to their rich life experience.

10. What if your wife finds out you've been hiding something from her? ① Find something she did wrong to excuse yourself. ② Avoid mentioning the matter to prevent hurting your relationship. ③ Make her believe you didn't care at all.

11. What special attention do you pay to personal hygiene? ① Do you think women prefer a natural masculine scent? ② Do you wash your face and apply cologne before a date? ③ Do you shower before a date or before sex?

12. If the woman you like always brings her married sister with her on dates, what would you do? ① Stop dating her ② Spend time with her without marrying her ③ Live with her freely and happily

13. What is your attitude towards contraception? ① Men won't get pregnant; it's a woman's problem. ② You always use condoms to protect yourself. ③ You won't have sex with her until you've agreed on shared responsibilities.

14. When do you send flowers to your partner? ① When you feel you've done something wrong and want to make up. ② On her birthday or a holiday. ③ When you want to make her especially happy.

15. What kind of movie would you like to take a mature woman to see? ① Comedy ② Thriller ③ Romance

16. What would you do if your partner lost the ability to have normal sexual intercourse for some reason? ① Express sympathy for her, but leave her as soon as possible. ② Feel cheated and unhappy for yourself. ③ Seek new ways to satisfy each other.

17. What should you do if an unmarried girl makes sexual advances towards you? ① Agree to her request, but leave her quickly afterward. ② Tell her parents and suggest they educate her. ③ Suggest she seek psychological treatment.

18. What do you do right after making love? ① Smoke a cigarette ② Fall asleep quickly ③ Continue caressing her

The scores for the above answers are: ③: 2 points, ②: 1 point, ①: 0 points. Then, by adding up the scores for each question, we can draw the following conclusion:

30-36 points: You are sexually mature and don't need much guidance in love. You also have no shortage of admirers.

20-29 points: You have a considerable ability to attract the opposite sex, but you need to improve your approach to relationships.

10-19 points: You are not mature enough in love and are rather naive, but there are some people who like your childish way of dating.

0-9 points: You are in a state of confusion regarding sex and need guidance from others, otherwise no one will spend their life with you.

Six physiological weaknesses of men

Physiologists believe that men have many physiological weaknesses compared to women.

heart

Among all patients with myocardial infarction worldwide, men constitute the majority, with a cure rate of only two-thirds. The main causes of this disease are excessive consumption of high-fat foods and heavy smoking and drinking. Long-term alcohol stimulation can cause fatty degeneration of the heart, reducing its contractility and affecting normal heart function. Long-term excessive drinking can cause fatty deposits in the blood to accumulate on the blood vessel walls, narrowing the vessels, raising blood pressure, and threatening the heart. Furthermore, because the male body reacts strongly to adrenaline and other vasoconstrictive substances, work stress and emotional distress are also contributing factors. Therefore, it is important to maintain a good emotional state, moderate or stop smoking and drinking, engage in appropriate daily exercise, and consume suitable amounts of vitamin C, hawthorn, or garlic.

liver

Men are twice as likely as women to suffer from liver disease. The primary cause is alcohol consumption. The main component of alcohol is ethanol. Most alcohol that enters the body is metabolized in the liver. Long-term heavy drinking damages liver cells, gradually impairing their detoxification ability, making one more susceptible to hepatitis, cirrhosis, and potentially liver cancer. Therefore, avoid or limit alcohol consumption, avoid high-fat and hard-to-digest foods, and eat more cheese, yogurt, and lean meat.

Stomach

Men, due to their frequent social interactions, are prone to overeating, especially binge eating, smoking, and drinking, which can lead to gastritis and gastric ulcers. To prevent stomach problems, it is important to maintain a cheerful mood, eat regularly and in moderation, avoid overeating or going hungry, and avoid excessively hot or cold foods. Chewing food thoroughly and slowly is also beneficial, and spicy or irritating foods should be avoided.

rectum

Rectal cancer is more common in men. To prevent this disease, one should pay attention to diet, eating regularly and in moderation, consuming plenty of fiber-rich foods, and avoiding spicy foods.

prostate

The prostate is an important male sex gland, and the most common problem is chronic prostatitis. 60% of men are prone to prostate disease after age 50. This is due to changes in the secretion of androgen steroids, which cause the glands around the urethra to enlarge. The enlarged prostate becomes flattened, which in turn compresses the bladder, leading to difficulty urinating. To prevent this disease, you can eat two tablespoons of pumpkin seeds after meals, as pumpkin seeds contain a protein that inhibits prostate enlargement. Maintain a regular lifestyle, avoid alcohol and spicy foods, and manage your sexual activity appropriately.

testis

The testicles are a delicate organ, and many factors can cause them to atrophy and impair function. These include mumps during puberty accompanied by orchitis, which can damage the testicles; injuries, accidents, and surgeries that damage the testicles; and autoimmune diseases. Benign testicular tumors are generally rare; when they do occur, they are usually malignant. To prevent testicular diseases, it is important to avoid injury. If inflammation or a painless lump appears, seek immediate medical attention.